Cassie B’25
“When I ask myself, ‘Who is the best person I know?’ It takes no time at all for my Great Grandma to pop into my head. She may have lived on the other side of the country, but she sure did leave a mark on me.
She was born in Cuba to two parents who weren’t married, which in the eyes of her community, meant she was worth about as much as dirt. Without the help of her parents or community, she raised her ten half-siblings. She taught herself to sew and eventually made enough money to come to the U.S. She moved to Washington Heights, New York, married a man she met there, and raised two sons. She was a strong-willed, hardworking woman. But the grandma I knew was much more than that.
I remember her New York apartment, warm and filled with the smell of cinnamon. I remember her standing in the cramped kitchen, cooking Moros y Cristianos and ropa vieja for the family. I remember the fresh sheets she put on the guest bed every day. I even remember a story my mom tells about the difficulty of getting me baptized because there were too many babies on the list. My Grandma grabbed the priest by the ear and told him he better baptize her little Granddaughter or else.
I was baptized that day, so she must’ve been a scary woman as well as a loving one. What I remember most vividly of all, though, was her funeral seven years ago. The ushers had handed out some of those little prayer cards with her picture on the front and the Beatitudes on the back. All I could think was, ‘She was every one of these things.’
Blessed are the poor in spirit. Blessed are the meek. Blessed are the merciful. The pure in heart, the peacemakers, the persecuted, they who hunger and thirst for righteousness. Never have I known someone who so greatly exemplified these attributes. If we all think of ‘The Best Person We Know,’ we should all be thinking of somebody who Jesus describes.
Now, the thing about these attributes is that they’re not very difficult. Let’s be honest, how hard is it to be kind? To be humble? To forgive? Sure, these things may seem challenging in a given moment, but they’re simple, uncomplicated. That’s what makes every person being envisioned at this very moment so amazing; they do these simple, good things in an overly complicated world.
Moving forward through the rest of the Christmas Season, we should strive to be that same kind of amazing. Some of you might already be. Maybe somebody here is picturing you in their mind as we speak. The important thing to remember though is that no matter the hardships, we can all be more saintly if we just follow the roadmap in the gospel. Poor in spirit, mournful, meek, righteous, merciful, pure in heart, peaceful, persecuted. If my grandma could do it after being raised under a dictatorship, so can we. So can I. So can you.” -Cassie